On Super Bowl Sunday, New England fans sulk as the sun sets on Title TownSaturday February 2nd, 2013
For New England sports fans, it is just another weekend of what could have been. What should have been. What may not be ours again any time soon.Remember Title Town? Remember when Duck Boat parades seemed an annual rite?Eight Super Sundays removed from the last Patriots championship, fans are starting to get all too familiar with season-ending disappointment. You know, the way it used to be. Only now, it is different. Boston’s unprecedented parade of seven championships in four sports in 10 years did not make losing easier. For some, it made it harder.We used to go down in flames together; perennial disappointment weirdly brought us together.It was always the moments when victory slipped from our grasp — destiny skittering through Buckner’s wickets; Grady leaving Pedro in; too many Bruins on the ice in Montreal — that shined brightest in memory, their retelling a kind of community glue.Somewhere, in all the winning, we forgot about that.“Everyone takes it personally. It’s almost personal that the Patriots aren’t in the Super Bowl,” said Rusty Sullivan, 47, a lifelong Boston fan and executive director of the Sports Museum, a nonprofit educational institution in TD Garden.That first Duck Boat procession in 2002, for the first of three Super Bowl wins in four seasons, was a salve for a fandom that had prided itself — defined itself — by its unrequited love for teams that never won it all. An annual Duck Boat debauch felt like something we had earned after cheering on the Bruins in vain for a generation, the Patriots for a lifetime, and the Red Sox forever. Even the Celtics, with all those banners, had fallen into a prolonged drought.Now we feel jilted whenever our four major sports teams lose. That is especially true of the Patriots after tantalizing near-misses in 2008 and last year.“It’s pretty heartbreaking. I feel like I’m watching the same episode of a bad TV show each year,” said Marc O’Brien, 38, a bartender at Anchovies restaurant in Boston’s South End. “I can’t believe we haven’t gotten at least that fourth ring. I think we should have five, minimum. They could have been the best team ever.”The Patriots were not alone on that path to historical greatness. Not in our minds, anyway. The Red Sox, having won cathartic titles in 2004 and 2007, and nearly making it back to the World Series in 2008, looked like a dynasty in the making. (As recently as 2011, at least one insider thought they could win 100 games.) The New Big Three Celtics, ring-winners in 2008, were going to extend their lead in NBA championship banners over the hated Lakers (and came agonizingly close to it in 2010).Now we have an aging Celtics team whose drive for mediocrity has been crippled by the loss to injuries of their star point guard and their promising rookie big man. Speaking of injuries, how about that Red Sox slogan in the wake of last year’s 69-93 debacle: “What’s broken can be fixed.” Have fun rooting for that.Our hopes now rest with the Bruins, Stanley Cup winners in 2011 and among the favorites this year. And one dynasty is not enough for fans who expect four — like Sullivan’s sons, ages 14 and 11, who grew up believing that rooting for a team is only about championships and success.“Look at Cleveland,” he said. “How would you want to live in Cleveland? How bad would it be to a Cleveland fan?”It would be this bad: Cleveland has not won in any major sports since their Browns won the 1964 NFL title (before there was a Super Bowl). The only major sports city with a longer futility streak is San Diego (whose 1963 Chargers crushed the Boston Patriots to win the AFC title), and they at least have good weather. Naturally, Clevelanders think we are spoiled brats.“How dare any New England fan complain about anything? Where does this sense of entitlement come from?” asked Mike Polk, a diehard Cleveland sports fan and comic, who answered his own question. “It’s ingrained in the fan base and in the city. They’re predictably inconsolable. Life has taught them that they’re supposed to win at all forms of sporting, and this has made the majority of them horrendous losers in many walks of life.”Such words would sting if they did not contain an element of truth.“We think that the sun rises and sets on both sides of Interstate 495,” said Sullivan.“It’s not just in sports,” observed Bill Zeoli, 47, who has held Patriots season tickets since 1994 and would have been in New Orleans now if the team had made it to the Super Bowl. “It’s a self-important-Boston thing: We’re better than everybody else because we’re the Cradle of Liberty and we have all these educational institutions and we know better than you. That sort of thing.”Continued... David Filipov jumped on the Red Sox bandwagon in 1967. He can be reached at email@example.com. Follow him on Twitter @davidfilipov.